Self Care > Self Control

image.png3 women whom I greatly respect and admire and who are far wiser than I, coined this saying – and it is one I will be putting to practice A LOT this week.

As someone who struggled with eating disorders and body image growing up, the holidays – particularly those centered around food – were a complete nightmare for me. Rather than being able to enjoy time spent in fellowship and laughter with family and friends, I spent it a nervous wreck; going over in my mind all the ways I could get out of having to eat and lie my way out of enduring a 4 or 5 course meal. I also remember after recovering from my eating disorder, going in the complete opposite direction of restriction and engaging in absolute gluttony. To be honest I really struggled with this “all or nothing mentality” for a very long time. I only saw food as “good” or “bad” and honestly it wasn’t until I started training to be a wellness coach that I began to understand the concepts of food as fuel, food as medicine, and food as nourishment. Which is why this saying of “self care > self control” really resonated with me.

This holiday season I am excited about all the parties and dinners, appetizers and desserts, because I know that with this motto as my guide, I can joyously say yes to things that are going to fuel and honor my body, but not go overboard – as that wouldn’t. I don’t have to restrict myself because extreme dieting and self-control does not honor my body. Therefore I can have a grateful attitude towards food and be thankful for all the things it does for my body – not just focus on wether or not it’s “bad” or “good.” And I don’t have to spend my evenings lying to the ones I love most to avoid eating; I can sit at a party and actually enjoy the food, the people, the smiles, the laughter the making of memories!

So thankful for beautiful sisters in Christ and fellow teammates, Emily Copeland, Liz Patton, and Michelle Myers for challenging me in this! When our actions honor our bodies, it becomes about making the most out of our time in these vessels and maximizing the talents, skills, and gifts we’ve been given to serve others. Whereas choosing restriction and obsessive control can isolate us from others and carry us far away from our intended purpose and passions. It’s only by the grace of God that I found my way out of that dark rabbit hole! Wishing you a week of good food, good drink, good company and lots of memory making!!!

Ladies, embrace your uniqueness!

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“Our generation is becoming so busy trying to prove that women can do what men can do that women are losing their uniqueness. Women weren’t created to do everything a man can do…. Women were created to do everything a man can’t do.” – Author Unknown
Coming off quite a weekend of illness and craziness in the Thorn household… It can best be summed up by lots of puking, lots of coughing, and lots of boogers. I’m kinda the last man (woman) standing and praying for God’s grace and protection in keeping me healthy… At least until backup (thank you mom and dad) arrives for Thanksgiving.
Was just thinking how easy it is to go to that place of self-pity and frustration when life gets a little overwhelming and then, by God’s grace, reminding myself that it’s little tests like this that produce endurance.

 

It’s amazing how as women and mothers, God gives us opportunities like these to really shine in our roles; because they make us realize we can’t succeed on our OWN but that we MUST rely on Him. I am sitting here in absolute wonder of His faithfulness, the blessing of my amazing husband, and the two little gifts he has entrusted us with! Being a mother is an exalted calling, one in which we were perfectly designed for! Tonight I’m thankful for our uniqueness; our ability to grow, birth, and sustain life; serve and nurture our families, and to LOVE fiercely – despite lack of sleep, food, or energy!
Tonight I’m thinking about all my fellow mamas out there who are in it! Take heart knowing that you were made for this! God chose you, specifically you to be the mother of your child/children and when you feel you are being tested it is only to make you better in that role! Embrace it ladies!

Workout Review: Core de Force

Because I tried out this FREE new workout, $10 was donated to Big Brother Big Sister of America today!   That’s what I call productive multi-tasking!!
So here’s the sped-up, condensed version of this 30 minute MMA style workout called CORE DE FORCE – along with my review!  I LOVE that CDF is packed with the best of MMA-inspired training; Boxing, Kickboxing, and Muay Thai knee-elbow combinations, bodyweight training, and cardio spikes! I also love that each 3-minute “round” includes a new move/combo plus a bonus cardio burst (jump rope, burpees, etc). And I love the energy of the instructors and creators of CDF, Jericho Matthews and Joel Freeman.
All in all, this is one of the best new at-home workouts I’ve seen on the market in awhile; mostly because it’s refreshing and there’s nothing else like it currently on the market.  And because taking martial arts and survival based movement that literally dates back hundreds of centuries, then making them applicable and functional to today’s society – is just awesome! And did I mention it’s FUN and you kind of feel like a bad a** doing it????
There’s really nothing I can say that I didn’t like about Core de Force but I do have two cautionary suggestions. If you have sensitive knees, are returning to working out after a knee injury, or you are prone to knee injuries I honestly would not recommend this program.  As I mentioned above, this is a full body workout meaning you work from your feet to the crown of your head and there is so much foot work, specifically pivoting that it could be a knee injury waiting to happen – notice I took this entire video without shoes because I could not pivot on carpet (there’s another tip for you, if you do at-home workouts in your carpeted bedroom or living room, you are going to want to do this one sans shoes).
Also, if you are just coming back from having a baby, being pregnant or are currently pregnant, or generally have any strain, injury or have incurred trauma to your pelvis or pelvis area, I would also steer clear of CDF.  Expecting mommies, there is far too much twisting in this program and it’s FAST so you are more likely to injury yourself or do harm to your baby with all that jerky twisting (closed twisting is not recommended for expecting mothers because it can reduce oxygen flow to your baby).  Post natal mommies, I do not recommend this program until you are AT LEAST 3 months post partum and then I would personally wait longer, here’s why – all that twisting requires a lot of work from the transverse abdominus or your “corset” muscle which attaches at the top of your pubic symphysis.  If you just had a baby, your pelvis is still healing from expanding and birthing a baby – not to mention every other muscle in your pelvic floor which is also healing post-baby.  The moves in this workout, when done effectively, should target your entire core and pelvic floor which are used to stabilize your skeletal body.  During pregnancy, breastfeeding, and up to 4 months after you finish breastfeeding there is a little hormone in your body called relaxin that basically acts as a lubricant to your joints, ligaments, and muscles making them more susceptible to injury (allows your body to “open” and birth a baby).  If you do go for this workout post pregnancy/while breastfeeding follow the modifier (who is great by the way) and ease your way into the workout to learn the moves before going all in and risking a chance of injury!
And if you want to learn more, comment below or shoot me an email at: jenthornfit@gmail.com!

My number one tip when returning to exercise post-pregnancy…

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My amazing mommies and littles at my Mommy & Me Barre class

We interrupt this programming to bring you the cutest pic of babies and beautiful mommies you have ever seen!!! Love these amazing women from my Mommy & Me Barre class who encourage, inspire, and support each other week in and week out!

Even if you can’t get to a Mommy & Me Barre class, there are a few things you should keep in mind when returning to exercise post-pregnancy:

Consult your physician: get the green light from your OB BEFORE returning to exercise, and please, please, please wait at least 6 weeks (minimum) before returning to an exercise “regime.” Ladies, I don’t care how great you feel, your body just underwent major trauma! There is no way you can SAFELY return to exercise days after birth because the muscles of your abdomen, including your transverse abdominus, your rectus abdominus, and pelvic floor – cannot SAFELY support your skeletal structure after birth! Because of the explosion of hormones your body released to allow the bones, joints, and ligaments to soften, widen, and expand (to birth a baby), everything is still soft and pliable… aka more susceptible to injury and slower healing post-delivery. Picture trying to balance a 10 pound dumbbell on a piece of overcooked spaghetti… you feel me???

So do yourselves a favor (and me, please) just take a moment to focus on what’s really important; focus on healing, nurturing, and nourishing your body; focus on connecting with and getting to know your baby – you learn them and they learn you; give yourself permission to love on, and let others love on you; spend your time cuddling, learning what your baby likes and dislikes, how they like to be soothed. And don’t even get me started on learning the art of breastfeeding (that’s another post entirely)!

Moms are superhuman… seriously, y’all amaze me! We can pretty much do ANYTHING! But what I want you to ask yourself is “Why?” and “Should I?”. To whom are your choices truly benefitting… You? Your ego? Your baby? Your family? Your health? Like honestly, let’s stop for a moment and remind ourselves that being “healthy” does not mean fitting into our pre-pregnancy lulu lemon yoga pants or having six pack abs (despite what most other “fitness” accounts say/show you)! Being a “healthy mom” starts from the inside; it starts from your heart, your soul and your mind!

And PS, these are the things I talk about with my clients I coach one-on-one in my monthly support groups for new moms! My next group starts Monday 10/31 and is open to new moms (don’t have to be a first time mom), with babies 3-12 months old. Email me at 📧 jenthornfit@gmail.com if you want to learn more!

LOVE > hate

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My whole world… Why I do what I do. Every decision, every action, every thought, holding them all captive to how it affects these 3 people right here. I find myself just wanting to protect them from the evil and darkness that exists in this world, so much hate, so much anger being spewed left and right and up and down. And it’s so LOUD!
This week I have challenged myself and I’m challenging you too; to be light, be love, show love, to show compassion to someone in need, encourage someone who is different than you, to embrace the fact that while we are all different we are all HUMAN; black, brown, red, white, Christian, Jew, republican, democrat…. we all bleed red.
Guess I’m just feeling so discouraged by the incessant montage of judgements, opinions and attacks on people’s character in the past few weeks. How about instead of posting, slandering, or criticizing someone’s performance or character this week we just lift up another human being??? How about we celebrate someone’s accomplishments, encourage, inspire, and uplift???? Can you imagine if for one day the focus was on spreading LOVE instead of spewing HATE??? I’m doing it, I’m making a choice this week to spread love. I don’t want my kids to grow up in a world where the only thing they hear or experience everyday is hate, darkness, and judgement. Anyone else ready for a change? We have to be it, we are responsible firsthand for what our littles see, hear, and experience. Who is going to make a commitment to spread LOVE this week???

Motherhood and identifying your true calling…

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This is what business meetings in my life look like today… me pumping, one of my amazing mentors breastfeeding… and the two of us dreaming and visioneering!

I remember before I had Ethan, my first, so many people told me “oh get ready, your life is about to change” or “life will never be the same” and some even said, “you are going to have to give up a lot.” Well, what I have found is that motherhood can either make you focus on all the things you “CAN’T” do anymore OR it provides an opportunity for you to focus on what’s truly important – where your true calling lies and what you should really be doing with your life. I will emphasize that this is a choice – if you feel a pull towards one area, but it takes away from your primary callings of wife and mother, it may be time to reevaluate those priorities (read Famous in Heaven and at Home for more on this)! But, if an opportunity comes your way that allows you to honor your primary callings as wife and mother – give it a second look!
It’s true that “your greatest calling in life may not be something you do but someone you raise” – Andy Stanley. I’m so thankful that motherhood taught me this valuable lesson, and I’m so thankful for women like this in my life. Women who not only allow me to make the choice to put my family first but who encourage it and who inspire me to dream big while honoring my priorities at the same time. Two people have been pivotal in teaching this to me and I am truly thankful for both of them, Danielle Haigh and Michelle Myers. Do you have women like this in your life??? If so, make sure you tell them thank you for inspiring and supporting you in this area.
Here’s to all the mamas out there who are leading, serving, and making a difference in the world right where they are! Motherhood doesn’t have to hold us back, in fact it can only make us better; better stewards of our life, our bodies, and our gifts and unique talents! Have a great weekend friends!!!

Haley’s Testimonial Story…. “I tried hard for ME!”

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Haley with her beautiful family!

I am so excited to share Haley’s testimonial with you today!  I was fortunate enough to work with Haley in one of my virtual bootcamps last summer.  She is a student of mine at Pursue Movement Studio, a boutique barre, yoga, and fitness studio where I teach in Jackson Hole, WY. She is also a current participant in my Famous in Heaven and at Home faith-based Virtual Bootcamp.  Famous in Heaven and at Home is a character study of the Proverbs 31 woman written by my mentor, Michelle Myers.  If you have not read it, do yourself a favor, and go pick up a copy right now!!!  Your life will be forever blessed and mind completely blown by this book!!!

Haley is what we would consider someone who has chosen to make health and fitness part of her lifestyle.  I’m sure if you asked her about it she would be the first to tell you there is no one magic shake, quick fix, or anything fast and easy that yields lasting results.  As you can see from my introduction, she is constantly working to make herself stronger, feel healthier, and is always willing to try new things!  She would also tell you that with fitness, there is no final destination, there is only a very fulfilling, at times challenging, journey that makes you stronger; not just physically, but mentally, emotionally and spiritually as well!  Here is Haley’s experience working with me as a coach, in her own words….

“Jen Thorn is the most amazing coach! She continues to inspire me each day with her strength in the studio, in the kitchen and in her daily devotion. I got to know Jen through her barre classes at Pursue Movement Studio, and she has completely changed by outlook on fitness and nutrition. I was brave enough to join one of her 60-day health and fitness challenges last summer and I have never looked back.

 

I have participated in workout challenges in the past and tried hard “for my team” or for the “prize”, but last summer was the first time I tried hard for me. And not just for the duration of the challenge, I felt like it was my first official life change! I’ve finally figured it out…daily workouts, plus nutrition is the only way to stay healthy!

I’ve definitely been one to indulge and even overindulged in the past, and during the challenge I quit drinking alcohol for 60 days! It was amazing! I gave myself a break maybe twice during social gatherings and it made me so much more thankful for that “sip” of indulgence vs. expecting it.

I’m down 10 pounds from day 1 but I’m feeling so good! I’m glad this is a 60 day challenge because then all the good habits become a way of life (hopefully)!

And by the way, I even rocked getting up at 5:45 a.m. in the morning and running with a neighbor 3 and 5 miles!!! Man, I’m sore but the “I think I can” approach is rebuilding my confidence.”

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In addition to attending my barre classes at Pursue Movement Studio and several other classes including Kettlebell (one of her favorites), Haley has also used two of my absolute favorite Beachbody programs to stay fit and healthy.  Last summer she committed to Chalene Johnson’s PiYo workout and this summer she has been using Autumn Calabrese’s 21 Day Fix Extreme!  I haven’t figured out which one she likes better yet but Haley used to be a dancer so I think her body naturally gravitates towards the flow and breath-filled movements of PiYo.  Now she is so strong, she can do anything – you should see the girl do pushups!!!

As you can see, Haley is still on her own journey but she has fallen in love with health and fitness so much that she decided to pay it forward and become a wellness coach on our Team.  Team Refine is a group of helpers seeking to become better through testing and serve others in health.  Our team was founded off of James 1:2-3:

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.”

We are mothers, daughters, sons, health professionals, health rookies, and just people who found something that worked for them and now want to pay it forward!  I am honored that Haley let me be a small part of her story and so proud of all her hard work, dedication, and the type of woman and role model she is becoming for her husband, her children, her family and friends!

If you want help writing your own story, my next virtual bootcamp starts this coming Monday, September 26.  Fitness + Nutrition + Accountability + Support is what worked for Haley…let’s see if it works for you!  Just fill out the form below or email me at jenthornfit@gmail.com for additional information!

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April’s Testimonial Story: Healthy living, one change at a time

april-preuss-pregnancyHi Guys!  I am so excited to share with you April’s transformation story.  I love this story because it is not the typical tale of someone trying to “lose weight” it is the story of an expecting mama looking to prepare her body for a healthy pregnancy and do the best for herself and the growing life inside of her!  Just thinking about this girl gives me goosebumps as she is such an incredible woman with a beautiful heart for the Lord, for others, and for life!

April and her husband Cam work with my husband in the National Park.  When I first met her, I had heard that she and Cam were runners and trained vigorously throughout the year training for both half and full marathons.  So naturally, being a non-runner (my personal best is maybe 7 miles…and that’s being generous to myself) I immediately was intimidated by her; I thought she was fierce and beyond any “help” my coaching services could provide.  Almost two years ago we somehow started a conversation about nutrition (maybe she remembers the exact details better than my old mom brain will) but I was just waiting for her to teach me something about nutrition as I just assumed as an extreme runner/athlete she would have it all figured out.  Turns out, she was looking for something to help keep her energized and sustain her through her long training runs and that actually benefitted her body rather than just spiked her blood sugar.  So we got her started on Shakeology and within a few weeks she recognized a noticeable difference, here’s what she had to say about it in her own words:

“I’ve been running half marathons since 2012, and I was struggling to fuel my body properly for my long runs.  If I didn’t fuel just right, I would get nauseous or I would completely run out of energy.  A little over a year ago I started Shakeology.  I knew my diet needed to improve, and I was curious how it would affect my running.  Within the first week I noticed that I had more energy whether I was running that day or not.  It was also easier to wake up in the morning.  I started to have a shake about an hour before my long run, and with the first run I noticed the difference.  I hit my stride earlier, and my energy lasted the entire run.  My husband was skeptical at first and wasn’t interested in trying the “shakes”.  However, about a month after I started, he tried a chocolate shake and has been hooked ever since.  When we travel overnight for races we always pack our blender!  It’s the perfect way to fuel up for a race, and we wouldn’t consider anything else now. Even when we’re not training for a race, we often replace lunch with a shake.  We notice that we have more energy and feel better overall throughout the day.” 

A little less than a year ago, April reached out to me again to talk about nutrition, but this time it wasn’t just for her, it was for the budding life she was now growing inside of her! April was very honest with me about the fact that in college she struggled with her weight and body image, and said it took her a really long time to lose the extra weight she put on. She was concerned because once she started putting on weight during her pregnancy, all of those “insecure feelings” from college came flooding right back:

“I tell you the first pound I put on brought back all of those feelings. Even though I knew that this time around the weight gain was for a good reason, it was healthy, I still struggled with it.”

April was also very honest about the fact that based on what everyone had “told” her about pregnancy “the aches, pains, weight gain, exhaustion,” etc., left her feeling dispirited about being pregnant. But she had resolved herself NOT to feel this way and she was going to do everything she could to create the healthiest environment for her body to grow this little baby, and hopefully feel great!

Because April was an avid runner, she, like many of us, told herself that she could pretty much eat whatever she wanted:

“Because I was logging a lot of miles I didn’t think I had to focus on the intensity of my workouts or eat healthy…but logging a lot of miles doesn’t make you a healthy and active person.   I was eating poorly and I wasn’t investing good quality time into workouts I was doing.  I didn’t have anyone holding me accountable so I didn’t feel like I needed to do those “things”.”

Those “things” included eating for nourishment, training for strength and with a purpose, and learning what a healthy balanced diet looks like.  So, I introduced April to the 21 Day Fix.  Now don’t freak out, I wasn’t prescribing a “diet” to a pregnant woman; the 21 Day Fix allows you to calculate your calorie intake to achieve different goals.  April’s goal was to learn exactly what a healthy balanced diet looked like, gain a healthy amount of weight according to her body as determined  between herself and her OB, and to create the optimum environment for her bodily systems to function and grow/support life.  We got April off and running (not literally) on the accessible, no-nonsense approach towards portion eating and 30 minute workouts of the 21 Day Fix and here is her personal testimonial about that experience:

“I wasn’t that excited about being pregnant and the whole process.  While I did experience some pregnancy discomfort, I found, I was able to overcome those things through a sound fitness & eating program.  Before Jen introduced me to the 21 Day Fix, I thought eating plans were bland, left you feeling hungry all the time, and I thought all I would be able to eat were raw vegetables.  Thankfully the 21 Day Fix wasn’t like that at all!  The eating plan on the 21 Day Fix left me feeling full and boosted my energy, which I really did need some days (I was growing a human being).  About a week in, both my husband and I noticed our cravings for high fat, processed, and other unhealthy foods had greatly diminished and we both recognized a noticeable difference in our energy levels.  We also noticed how bad we felt on the days we were not fueling our bodies with proper nutrition and nourishing food. The attention to form and detail in the 21 Day Fix workouts was also unlike anything I had ever done before. And there’s nothing more motivating to push through a few seconds of an exercise than knowing that you have to push out a baby in a few weeks.  But I must admit that the biggest change I noticed was a more positive body image.  About one week into the three-week workout program, all of the mental strength I was gaining from the strength training really kicked-in; I started feeling different about my body without even realizing it.  One morning I just woke up and didn’t have those insecure feelings anymore – I felt stronger than I ever had before and I felt good about my body, even though I was putting weight on for pregnancy.  Knowing that the choices I was making daily, even though some days those choices weren’t easy, because I felt tired or uncomfortable or “large”, but knowing they were the benefit of myself and my baby really helped me build mental strength.  It was so empowering to know that what I was doing for my body was helping me overcome some of the pregnancy symptoms that I would be experiencing otherwise, and that those symptoms weren’t getting the best of me.”

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April, her husband Cam and new baby Grace in the shadow of the Tetons

After completing the 21 Day Fix April feel so in love with the Beachbody at home fitness and nutrition programs that she decided to join my team of coaches to pay it forward and help others lead healthier more vibrant lives.  I asked April about what changed for her and what was different this time around when it came to committing and seeing a wellness program through from start to finish and she said it was because of her “WHY.”

“I want to encourage others to find your reason, find your WHY to take care of your body and to strengthen it – mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically.  For me it was pregnancy.  But it doesn’t have to be pregnancy, it doesn’t have to be having children.  Personally speaking, it’s knowing that I’m setting a healthy foundation for my daughter by taking action.  She’s going to adopt eating and exercise habits from me, whether I make good choices or bad choices.  I also want her to value her body and what it’s capable of.  So often our bodies are capable of so much more than we give them credit for and I want her to grow up appreciating that.   I also don’t want her to struggle with her body image like I did, and I know that starts with her mother, and setting a good example for her.  So find your why and make sure it has a lot of meaning to you; it should be something that you are willing to fight for.  And then form a plan to get to where you want to be and, even more importantly, surround yourself with a community of people who will encourage and support you.  This is so important and often the part we leave out.  Honestly, that is what has made the difference for me in the past 9 months – having a community of support that has encouraged me to stay committed to my workouts, to eat healthier, and to keep going – even on days when I didn’t necessarily feel like it.   I feel healthier than ever because I’ve had a great coach and community to support me and I’m fueling my body properly.  And now I’m really excited to see what my running will look like when I’m able to return to it in a few months.  So thank you Jen and thank you to everyone else who has supported me during this journey!”

 

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April at her first 5K post pregnancy (3 months post partum) with sweet baby Grace
(I’m not loving the Steelers shirt but I guess we can still be friends…Broncos all the way baby!!!)

In May, April gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby girl, Grace, who is now four months old.  April is back to running, and has completed several other Beachody at home workout programs since the arrival of Grace and has also decided to pay it forward and became a health and fitness coach herself so she could inspire and serve others in health!  If you are a new mom, expecting mom, or a runner, I encourage you to connect with April as she has a heart of gold and is a wealth of information – your life will be forever blessed by having her in it!  Connect with April on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/aprilpreussalivefitness/?fref=ts or by visiting her blog at:  https://alivefitnessblog.wordpress.com/ .

April and I will be joining forces later this month and hosting an online virtual bootcamp that starts Monday, September 26, Prep for the Holidays: Body & Home Edition.  It’s a one month accountability group where we select a workout program and nutrition plan to meet your individual needs and goals, and then we coach and support you through 30 days of health and wellness.  This virtual bootcamp is unique in that in addition to our health and fitness support, we will be providing practical and simple at home cleaning and organization tips to simplify and prepare you and your home for the holidays. Just think, 30 days of working out, eating clean, support & coaching by two wellness coaches, and a clean and organized home…all before the holiday season begins – sounds like a dream come true!

Registration is currently open for our Prep for the Holidays: Body & Home Edition Virtual Bootcamp.  To apply simply complete the form below.  We can’t wait to get you started on your own personal transformation story!

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From extreme dieting to extreme living!

Ashley Miller

Ahhhh, I’m so excited to finally share this incredible transformation story!  Y’all this woman is an absolute force!  We met through our kids’ daycare and I knew the moment she came into my life that she was a mover and a shaker.  She has the most infectious spirit and exudes light and positivity.  It wasn’t until I got to know her that I learned that while she was always taking care of the needs of others, she struggled to take care of herself.  I am so thankful that she allowed me the opportunity to guide her on her health and wellness journey.  Without further ado, here is Ashley’s incredibly inspiring Transformation Story!

“My name is Ashley Miller and I’m writing this testimonial to share my Beachbody experience and how much it has changed my life.

I have battled my weight for decades- I have memories of ‘dieting’ in fourth grade! I tried every avenue growing up and by age 17 I was working out for 3 hrs a day with insane workout videos and ridiculous diets. I struggled with anorexia and bulimia.  Due to this insane yo-yo dieting and extremely unhealthy habits in my younger years, I greatly damaged my metabolism and had to work even harder in my twenties to keep the weight off.

After the birth of my 11lb 14oz daughter when I was 28, my weight truly spun out of control. Not only could I not get the baby weight off – but I was in a high stress job, had mommy guilt over the hours my daughter was in someone else’s care- and put everything and everyone else before myself. I would see pictures of myself and I didn’t even recognize who I had become. I missed out on so much during the early years with my daughter because I didn’t feel good about myself. I hardly have any baby pictures of her and I together because seeing myself in photos truly made me sick. And I just kept putting the weight on.

In 2015 I had my son and my husband and I made the choice for me to stay at home after his birth. We had to move to a town further away from his job to make this work financially for us. After we moved, I didn’t know anyone in our new town and the adjustment of a new baby and a toddler, and staying home for 12+hours a day with them without my husband has difficult- to say the least.

In the fall of 2015, I was stressed to the max and had had enough. My father had been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, finances were tight, almost everyday I was having “mommy breakdowns” and the stress of how I felt about myself was taking a toll on my parenting – as well as my marriage.

One day I just put the kids in their stroller and started jogging. Between stopping for kids and just not having the endurance to go any faster, the first day it took me 18 minutes to do one mile.  After that, I committed to walking or running everyday after that. I even signed up for a 5k in November to help “keep me accountable”.

During this time a dear friend of mine, and inspirational mommy, Jen Thorn, reached out to me to join a virtual bootcamp. I wasn’t sure about the whole Beachbody “thing” and Shakeology, and really couldn’t make it work financially to purchase it all. BUT, she didn’t lose hope in me and inspired me to start with a 30-day exercise challenge workout plan- where you perform a different set of exercises each day (pushups, burpees, situps, lunges, etc.). I was hooked! My husband even joined with me in some of the workouts- and being able to hold myself accountable through a private Facebook group was so helpful.
However, during this time I was focusing mainly on a “low-carb” diet. I did lose weight, but found myself WAY over eating because in my heat I told myself: “as long as it’s low carb, I can eat all day”! Not to mention, it was difficult to get through some workouts and keep up my breastfeeding supply with this way of eating.

Then in March of 2016, Jen reached out to me again and asked if I wanted join a one of her virtual boot camps. It was awful, yet perfect timing; we were about to move into a new house, I had fallen off the jogging wagon over the holidays, and the stress of finding a new place to live….. But I knew I had to make a drastic change and make some smart financial decisions so I could afford a Beachbody Challenge Pack that comes with a complete workout program and Shakeology. In April, I started the 21 Day Fix Extreme, and I have never looked back. I would sell a pair (or five) of shoes to buy my Shakeology every month. It’s not just a “protein” shake; it’s a nutrient packed, no sugar, no artificial anything drink that has kept this mommy on a health kick without feeling deprived of something yummy.

I am about to wrap up my second round of 21 Day Fix and I’m down 2 pants sizes. Yes, in nearly 42 days (with a few cheat moments here and there) I have lost 6 inches in my hips, 4 in from my waist, and 2 in from my thighs. Workouts I couldn’t get through thirty days ago, I can now get through and I have even been able to increase the weights I use during my workouts. Now, one day without exercise is like a day without brushing my teeth. In a world where I have felt like I couldn’t control anything in my life (my husband’s long work hours, my father’s fast progressing illness, working on my Graduate degree and stressing on deadlines), my workouts and my nutrition have been the one thing I can control. It’s my happy place… I’m a better wife, a better mother, a better friend, and a better person because of this program. My husband tells me daily how good I look. My neighbors and family can’t believe the transformation in such a little time. I’ve cut my mile time on my jogs by a full minute in 40 days. I can do 5+ miles without stopping. I sleep better. My clothes fit me, and some are even loose! Imagine what another 40 days will do?!

Ashley before and after just two rounds of the 21 Day Fix Extreme:

Ashley Miller 2
I owe this life change to Jen and her faith in me. She kept trying until I was ready. She kept me accountable and, on days that I struggled, she told me no one is perfect and to keep at it. She helped me get my nutrition in check and ensured that my calories were enough to keep up my breast milk supply. She shared her own struggles and led by example – not by perfection.

I am now on my own journey as a Beachbody coach because I believe in their programs and the impact they can have on someone’s life. I have signed up for two more races and my friends want to join me. They see the changes, not just physically, but mentally. I owe it all to Beachbody and Jen. I cannot stress enough the change this program can bring you with the right mindset and coach. You are worth it.

Once you make that choice & decide not to look back- the possibilities of where you’ll take your body and mind are endless!”

I am so proud of this amazing friend, mom and wife and all that she has accomplished in such a short amount of time!  She is an inspiration to me and I hope her story inspires you!

Number one rule of making a salad….there are no rules!

Whoever coined the term “Culinary Arts” was on to something…

Mother Nature has blessed us with a colorful bounty of nutritious and delicious goodness and when it comes to salads, more is better…as in more color, more ingredients, and therefore more nutrients.  This week I was feeling inspired by the rainbow of hues at our local market and, as I always do, was trying to find new ways to make my meals go the distance.  I only have one day a week available for meal prep and therefore I employ the KISS method (Keep It Simple Sweetheart); a side of quinoa from dinner the night before becomes a “thickener” in an egg bake the following morning; leftover roasted vegetables become the topper on a rich green salad; leftover cut fruit is frozen into single serving size bags and used in our daily Shakeology smoothie.  You get the idea.  So, in an effort to make my leftover “grains” go the distance, and incorporate the beautiful spring fruits and vegetables in season, I went to my most reliable resource for food inspired works of art:  www.halfbakedharvest.com .  I can’t take credit for these recipes but I can share them with you and encourage you to create your own works of art, making substitutions based on what you currently have in your fridge/pantry – just as I did.   I cannot stress enough, do not stress by what (ingredients) you don’t have….use it as an opportunity to get creative and make it your own.

First off:  The Mean Green Detox Salad

Chickpea Salad

Ingredients
Lemon Tahini Dressing
2 tablespoons tahini (sesame seed paste)
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 teaspoon low sodium soy sauce or tamari
juice + zest from 1 lemon (use only half of the zest)
2 cloves garlic, grated
2 teaspoons fresh ginger, grated
salt + pepper, to taste

Directions: Add all the ingredients to a bowl and whisk until combined. Taste and adjust salt + pepper to your liking. Alternately you can add the ingredients to a blender or food processor and blend until smooth. The dressing can be made a week in advance and stored in the fridge until ready to use.
Salad
2 cups cooked chickpeas
1 cup unsweetened flaked coconut
2 tablespoon low sodium soy sauce or tamari
2 tablespoons sesame oil
1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
4 cups Tuscan kale, roughly torn
2 cups fresh broccoli florets
1/4 head purple cabbage, shredded
1/2 cup fresh parsley + cilantro, roughly chopped
hemp seeds + chia seeds, for topping
2 red grapefruits, segmented
2 ripe, but firm avocados, sliced or chopped

Preheat the oven to 425 degrees F. Spread the chickpeas out on a towel and dry them completely. Add the chickpeas and coconut to a baking sheet and toss with the soy sauce, sesame oil and cayenne pepper. Toss well to evenly coat. Roast for 20 minutes and then stir the chickpeas around and roast another 10 minutes or until the chickpeas are browned and the coconut is dark brown. Remove from the oven. Save any leftovers for snacking on later! Add the kale to a large bowl and drizzle with 1 teaspoon olive oil and a big pinch of salt. Using your hands, massage the kale for 2-3 minutes until the kale is well coated and has slightly softened. To the bowl add the broccoli, cabbage, parsley and cilantro. Toss well. Add the dressing and continue to toss until all the veggies are coated. Add the grapefruit segments and avocado. Gently toss to combine. At this point, you can cover and store the salad in the fridge for up to 24 hours or continue on with the recipe. Divide the salad into bowls. Top with the crunchy coconut chickpeas and the vegan parmesan cheese (recipe below) and a sprinkle of chia + hemp seeds. EAT!!!
Vegan Parmesan
1/2 cup raw pine nuts
2 teaspoons raw sesame seeds
1 tablespoon nutritional yeast
Salt, to taste

In a food processor or blender, combine the pine nuts, sesame seeds, nutritional yeast and a pinch of salt. Process until you have fine crumbs that resemble parmesan cheese. Taste and season with more salt if desired. The vegan parmesan can be made a week in advance and stored in the fridge until ready to use.

*Vegan Parmesan adapted from The First Mess.

 

And second…Very Berry Dream Salad with Chili Mango & Peanut Vinaigrette

Very Berry Salad
Chili Mango and Peanut Vinaigrette
1 ripe medium mango, peeled + diced
1 inch knob fresh ginger, peeled + diced
1 fresno chili pepper, seeded + diced (we omitted this for the kids’ sake) 🙂
2 tablespoons creamy peanut butter
2 tablespoons sweet thai chili sauce
1/2 cup canned coconut milk (we used lite)
1/4 cup olive oil
3 tablespoons rice vinegar
1/2 cup fresh basil, chopped
salt and pepper, to taste

Directions:
In a blender or high powered food processor, combine the mango, ginger, fresno chili pepper, peanut butter, sweet thai chili sauce, coconut milk, olive oil and rice vinegar. Blend until smooth and creamy. If the vinaigrette seems a bit thick, thin with water. Stir in the chopped basil and season with salt + pepper. Store in the fridge for up to 1 week in a glass jar.

Salad
4 cups baby spinach
4 cups mixed berries (I used raspberries, blueberries and blackberries)
2 cups cooked grains (I used barley and quinoa)
2 cups fresh sprouts
1/2 cup toasted peanut, chopped
1/4 cup toasted pine nuts
1/2 mango, peeled + diced
2 tablespoons chia seeds
1 avocado, pitted, peeled + sliced
4 ounces goat cheese or feta cheese, crumbled (omit if vegan)
1/2 cup edible flowers (optional)

Directions:
Combine the spinach, berries, grains, sprouts, peanuts, pine nuts, mango and chia seeds.  Top with avocado slices, goat or feta cheese (If using) and edible flowers. Drizzle generously with the mango vinaigrette. Serve with extra vinaigrette.

I will continue to be on the hunt for delicious salads that also serve as a work of art and share them with you here!  In the meantime, please do yourself a favor and go follow @halfbakedharvest on Insta for some serious cooking motivation and inspiration!!!